BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE > Show Him You Still Care

We go through these phases in our marriage where everything (and I do mean everything) becomes routine. You days are made of a series of actions, usually wake eat, work, eat, sleep. So it's easy for your partner to feel neglected, even if you haven't had a fight, because the day revolves around a giant to-do list.

When you find yourself in a mundane rut, step out and try these little tips to show him he is still your number one. Yes, you have daily responsibilities, but remember he is a priority over all of those, and they can wait!

LIFE HACKS FOR A HAPPY HUSBAND

• when he comes home from work, help him take his shoes off and offer to make him a sandwich (men LOVE sandwiches)
• make it a point not to interrupt his football/basketball/baseball TV time, and instead give him his favorite snacks and sit on the couch with him quietly, unless you're talking about the game (you don't have to actually watch, but being there with him let's him know you want him to have a good time) he'll be all yours when the game ends
• ask him what he wants for dinner, then make it. if he doesn't know, just make one of his favorites, or take him out to his favorite restaurants
• invest in something he cares about. if he's into fishing, pick up a magazine. if he loves cars, schedule a test drive. if he likes a certain actor, DVR one of their movies and pop some popcorn
• respect his method of unwinding. don't jump on him to take out the trash or pick up the dry cleaning the second he gets home/wakes up. give him at least 15 minutes to relax. its supposed to be home sweet home, remember?
• give naked. seriously, I know you're tired and have been working all day long just like he has, but sex is the number one way to connect with with your husband, especially if he's not expecting it. it will make you both feel good, and unconsciously remind him that you still find him desirable. 
• say thank you. he took out the trash, mowed the lawn, washed the car, cleaned the kitchen... you're probably thinking, he's supposed to do these things (and you're right) but gratitude is a powerful motivator. it says 'hey, I see your effort, I need you, and I appreciate all that you do for us.' soon he'll try to earn more gold stars because, hey, who doesn't like being the hero?

It isn't rocket science, but it works. You might think these tips are obvious, but if that's true, when why haven't you got started, girlfriend? Try one today and see how it changes your marriage for the better.